Race play

Publish date: 2024-03-15

I had a guy recently approach me on Instagram and start coming onto me. He was black, fairly attractive, and obviously horny. He was using Dom/Sub language (calling me "Sir", a god, etc.) and then after we had chatted a bit he started saying how he wanted to "serve his big white King" and then talked about he wanted to become my "obedient N-word boy so I'd never have to cook or clean or bathe myself in the future" and "I like being a humble loyal obedient n-word to my white superior god. It feels better too. Feel a white superior man cum in his property". (Except he used the full word, not my abbreviation).

He said a few more things like that - I figured it was his fetish but didn't respond with reciprocal phrases. He later asked me if I'd ever done "raceplay" (I hadn't, although I had heard of it at one point). Urban dictionary defines it as "Race Play is an avant-garde form of role play used by 2 consenting adults that incorporates racist, hurtful, & derogatory terms and comments regarding the other's race, to fulfill and reach sexual pleasure."

I haven't done it before obviously, but it could be kinda fun I guess in person if I trusted the person and there weren't any recording devices handy. Definitely nothing I would do online where it could easily be taken out of context, and definitely would be against my actual beliefs as far as race go, however there's something to be said about the taboo element (like how I can't even write out the word in this post) being kinda hot. I can be Dom when warranted and have fun with it and I see this as an added slave/master-with-race kinda element.

Has anyone else engaged in this, and/or what do you think? It's basically just roleplay.

(I'm serious about this, too, although I'm sure some trigger-happy people will call me a race-baiting troll etc.)

Here's a HuffPo post I found on it (so of course the person writing it is against it and considers it a horrible shaming thing - it's obviously not his fetish, but he definitely fetish-shames):

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by Anonymousreply 36December 30, 2020 1:38 AM

It sounds like that awful film called THE BREEDING.

by Anonymousreply 2August 24, 2020 9:52 PM

Beware of racist-in-disguise divisive trolls bearing polls.

by Anonymousreply 4August 24, 2020 9:53 PM

I've only done it when asked by partner. I'm white.

by Anonymousreply 5August 24, 2020 9:57 PM

A hole is a hole is a hole.

by Anonymousreply 6August 24, 2020 9:58 PM

Tragic but so perfect for this sick white supremacist society we live in!

by Anonymousreply 8August 24, 2020 9:59 PM

Wasn’t there a whole play on B’way about this?

by Anonymousreply 9August 24, 2020 10:28 PM

90% of sex is psychological

OP is fuddup

by Anonymousreply 10August 24, 2020 10:48 PM

It depends on what he's cooking for you afterward.

by Anonymousreply 11August 24, 2020 10:58 PM

Sadly, I think Trump will win another term and can see Tucker Carlsen replacing him in 2024.

The democratic convention focused on African Americans and had a lot of videos with disabled illegal immigrants who came to the US for free and high quality healthcare. I don't think that won over white swing state voters who are the only voters that matter.

by Anonymousreply 12August 24, 2020 11:43 PM

Every fetish likely has some sort of Deep Psychological Meaning behind it, but it's still about what turns you and your partner on.

by Anonymousreply 14August 25, 2020 1:51 AM

Most black guys I've hooked up with have always fallen back into race play or racial language, such as them talking up their BBC or how they love to fuck white boys.

by Anonymousreply 15December 29, 2020 5:34 PM

I've done it. It's fun. It's consensual and it's playing roles. It's ACTING.

by Anonymousreply 16December 29, 2020 5:37 PM

[QUOTE] Most black guys I've hooked up with have always fallen back into race play or racial language, such as them talking up their BBC or how they love to fuck white boys.

That’s not the same thing, R15.

by Anonymousreply 17December 29, 2020 5:38 PM

I don't like it, but if it's between two consenting adults, then it's none of my business.

by Anonymousreply 18December 29, 2020 5:43 PM

I have heard that some black guys get off on playing the old slave & master game during sex and being referred to in racial epithets. I know strange things turn people on at times, but that has to be one of the strangest, if not the saddest. But then, I've known of gay guys who got off on homophobic treatment during sex and being called every nasty gay epithet possible. I guess being mistreated is sexy to some people. Go figure.

by Anonymousreply 19December 29, 2020 5:49 PM

I've been with a couple of guys who were into black supremacy, their fantasy was to get all white guys addicted to black guys and force white tops to watch them "ruin" their white bottoms. It was strange but I went with it because the guys were hot.

by Anonymousreply 20December 29, 2020 5:54 PM

I have a black friend who says he wants a white guy to fuck him from behind and call him n*gger, whatever floats your boat.

by Anonymousreply 21December 29, 2020 6:22 PM

Some people will fetishize the things that scare them, or trauma they have experienced.

Gay men do this ALL the time with straight men and "alphas." I have no opinion or comment, other than to observe that, again, this is a not-uncommon human response, regardless of race, gender or orientation.

by Anonymousreply 22December 29, 2020 6:30 PM

This never happened.

OP is just racist, old Boris looking for permission to be racist and justify his agenda. Just like his Shit Brickhouse posts.

by Anonymousreply 23December 29, 2020 7:07 PM

If I develop a Broadway production about a marathon, would it be considered a

...race play?

by Anonymousreply 24December 29, 2020 7:15 PM

This isn't that uncommon. It's the control and dominance that people are getting off to, plus the naughtiness of the situation. Someone in a thread about the Balkans said that some countries, I think Croatians, would seek out dominate Serbians. They had brutal wars in the region and some of them are considered big dicked brutes. Many westerners romanticize Russians as other cold blooded men that would smack you around as the fuck the Democracy out of your little ass. Racism/slavery is another thing that we are conditioned to use as a Dom/Sub situation.

There are also some Jewish men and women that get off on fucking Muslims or Germans Christians. It's just a kink and all in good fun (hopefully). Didn't the leather community of the past just take pieces of the Nazi Uniforms and sex them up a bit because Nazi's are seen as touch, cold, beautiful white men, with impeccable style? Doesn't mean anyone is pro-Nazi but it's about the domanace vibe, nothing more.

Many women, and gay men, love calling their partner daddy. Does that mean they literally want to fuck or thinking about their fathers? More than likely no.

As a black man, too many of my encounters with white sexual partners ended with a typical racial comment about my BBC, lips, mouth, or ass. Those can be creepy to insulting as hell. I did meet one guy around my age 6'3 buttoned up preppy man that I met via Grindr. Both of us had a rather lengthy courtship where we got to know each other's kinks and started pushing the boundaries. I opened the door to a bit of race play one horny afternoon when he was topping. With someone I trusted it was a fun experience. Then I topped him and the roles reversed, but it was never about the "Master/Slave" stuff so much as the dirtiest things we could say to each other to get us off. Other times we just have a normal fuck. When we go to race it's a mutual decision that is all about playing around.

Some people have a foot fetish, drink piss, or eat shit. In the grand scheme of things, I don't see a problem with race play, as long as it's actually play and not some mental games.

Btw, I did hook up with a sweet as pie Russian while in Berlin. After a night of partying I ended up hookup up with him in the private bathroom of my hostel. Child let me tell you, he went straight to the fantasy. (Play) Slapping, light choking, rough oral, just amazing. Then I put him on his knees and have him some of my American meat. It was all play but boy was he fun.

by Anonymousreply 26December 29, 2020 7:33 PM

Hypersexualizing black men is a form of racism.

by Anonymousreply 27December 29, 2020 7:36 PM

I know it’s not the same thing, but porn with two black guys who each blurt out “shit nigga” and “damn nigga” is pretty fucking hot.

Much to my surprise, a black guy I was fucking said those same things to me and I’m white as can be.

I have to say I felt elevated and I liked it.

I have seen the black slave white master porn where the slave is getting fucked hard.

Then the tables are turned and the black guy fucks the white guy.

It’s hot because the burly white master was fucking loving being fucked by his “inferior” and the “slave” held back nothing.

It seemed obvious to both who had the real power all along and that they preferred it that way.

by Anonymousreply 28December 29, 2020 10:21 PM

Mine was the reverse of the OP: I was being fucked by a black guy (I'm white) as he got into it he started saying stuff like 'do you like that n- word dick?" and "yeah ride that n- word dick'. Being a white liberal I was a bit taken aback, but the sex was amazing. He kept repeating it and so I was saying stuff like "yeah I like it". Finally after more of this i echoed back his words - complete with n word- and he started thrusting more. Clearly he was getting off on it.

Never done it since, it was hot in the sense it made him more turned on and had an intense orgasm. I am careful never to use 'BBC" unless the other guy uses it first. And i would NEVER use the N word in any other context.

by Anonymousreply 29December 29, 2020 10:54 PM

I’m a Black guy who is good looking, in shape, and has a 8.5 inch dick. I do race play with guys I trust. I like fucking white bottoms. It gets me off when they tell me they like my big *N* dick. It’s forbidden. It’s hot.

Don’t know where it comes from. Don’t care. It turns me on and gets me off.

There’s inherent racial stuff going on with black tops and white bottoms and I just lean into it. I was with a white guy with a huge dick once and he liked talking about his “big white cock.”

by Anonymousreply 30December 29, 2020 11:43 PM

Agree with R10 - primary sexual organ is the brain. So much psychology behind the sex drive.

by Anonymousreply 31December 30, 2020 1:15 AM

Not my kind of thing OP but each to their own and all the more power to anyone who gets turned on but that kind of role play. They are controlling the situation and can stop if they feel uncomfortable or crosses a line. I'm a white guy and that's a word I would NEVER even consider uttering but I'm not going to judge two consenting adults having sexual fun.

by Anonymousreply 32December 30, 2020 1:19 AM

I'm not OP but does happen though R33.

by Anonymousreply 34December 30, 2020 1:27 AM

Maybe; but THIS INSTANCE never happened, r34.

OP is the absolute phoniest of balonies.

by Anonymousreply 35December 30, 2020 1:31 AM

Yes you're probably right about that R35. This is DL after all...

by Anonymousreply 36December 30, 2020 1:38 AM

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